Too often, the thing you want most is the one thing you can't have.Desire leaves us heartbroken, it wears us out.At some point, you have to make a decision. Life is messy, that's how we're made. So you can waste your life drawing lines or you can live your life crossing them. But there are some lines that are way too dangerous to cross. Here's what I know. If you're willing to throw caution to the wind and take a chance, the view from the other side … is spectacular.